Sunday, August 30, 2009

Commons Sense Dinner Fellowship #1

Six of us got together -- Stefan, Wyatt, Carl and me, later joined by Linda and Mariama -- to talk about what it means for our lives to be connected: to each other, to systems we don't fully understand, to a global economy, to and through technology.

It is a big and seemingly overwhelming topic, but we had a delightful time plumbing its depths and breadth together. I think the "together" part was our first lesson.

We talked about many things. Here are a few highlights:
  • The complexity of the systems that support our everyday life (Food Inc., Wall Street, etc.) is beyond our ability to comprehend them or their effects.
  • We have replaced personal love relationships and trust with artificial substitutes, like brand names.
  • The empire that rises one day will fall the next.
  • We need to heed the 80/20 principle and SIMPLIFY our lives.
  • Connectedness and the intimacy of small groups is more important than ever
  • The church needs to model the unplugging from the counterfeit and reconnecting in genuine ways.
  • A Boston Globe article, The Joy of Boredom, points out that every "boring" nook and cranny of our lives threatens to be crowded by technology or media -- a dangerous possibility. We need pregnant pauses in our lives: less is more.
  • Ezekiel 34 warns of the strong sheep and goats butting out the weak and then ruining the grazing and the watering hole essential for the weaker sheep and goats (vv17-19). A cautionary tale for how the wealthy work in our societies today.
  • We need to encourage people to connect and share so they can access their own inner healing.
  • We reminisced on times when we had the freedom of time to think hard and work through complex thoughts: college, theatre troupe, early days at a start-up with other like-minded folk.

Books we should look into:

In the spirit of full disclosure, we spent quite a bit of time talking about how Google has become the new evil empire. That said, I used Google and Google Book Search to find the links for this posting.